Comments on: Baring Breasts: Courting With Acceptance http://thedatingpapers.com/baring-breasts-courting-with-acceptance/ smart tips, better dates Sun, 21 Mar 2010 06:57:52 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Seth http://thedatingpapers.com/baring-breasts-courting-with-acceptance/comment-page-1/#comment-867 Seth Sat, 28 Feb 2009 17:27:41 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=102#comment-867 Hi Jackie! I'm not worried about stalkers. =P It can be very easy to develop a case of jadedness after a few relationships don't pan out and multiple dates end in disappointment. I know for a fact that there are lots of guys in the world like me. Sometimes you just have to be patient and give them time to let the good parts shine through. There's a lot of societal pressure for guys to do things a certain way...and it takes time if you're hoping for something different. I'm glad we're able to connect. I look forward to chatting with you in the future! =) Seth Hi Jackie!

I’m not worried about stalkers. =P It can be very easy to develop a case of jadedness after a few relationships don’t pan out and multiple dates end in disappointment.

I know for a fact that there are lots of guys in the world like me. Sometimes you just have to be patient and give them time to let the good parts shine through. There’s a lot of societal pressure for guys to do things a certain way…and it takes time if you’re hoping for something different.

I’m glad we’re able to connect. I look forward to chatting with you in the future! =)

Seth

]]> By: jackie brooke http://thedatingpapers.com/baring-breasts-courting-with-acceptance/comment-page-1/#comment-866 jackie brooke Sat, 28 Feb 2009 15:10:53 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=102#comment-866 loved this. you actually make me hopeful and more optimistic that there are more guys out there who are similar to you... that shouldn't be taken the wrong way, I am not becoming your stalker. But I must admit I've developed a bad attitude about men in general; feeling like there are only a few good ones out there.... etc. It's refreshing to hear the male perspective in this format, I will defiantly return for more posts. Cheers, jb loved this. you actually make me hopeful and more optimistic that there are more guys out there who are similar to you… that shouldn’t be taken the wrong way, I am not becoming your stalker. But I must admit I’ve developed a bad attitude about men in general; feeling like there are only a few good ones out there…. etc.
It’s refreshing to hear the male perspective in this format, I will defiantly return for more posts. Cheers, jb

]]> By: Seth http://thedatingpapers.com/baring-breasts-courting-with-acceptance/comment-page-1/#comment-175 Seth Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:24:57 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=102#comment-175 MSM: I like your style. I'll shoot you an email and see if we can't come up with something! Seth MSM: I like your style. I’ll shoot you an email and see if we can’t come up with something!

Seth

]]> By: Ms. Single Mama http://thedatingpapers.com/baring-breasts-courting-with-acceptance/comment-page-1/#comment-174 Ms. Single Mama Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:13:45 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=102#comment-174 Let's save your answers for a post on my blog - what do you say? I think our readers would get along. E-mail me... Let’s save your answers for a post on my blog – what do you say? I think our readers would get along. E-mail me…

]]> By: Seth http://thedatingpapers.com/baring-breasts-courting-with-acceptance/comment-page-1/#comment-173 Seth Fri, 12 Dec 2008 02:27:35 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=102#comment-173 MSM: 1. Thank you! 2. I'm glad you like it! 3. Yes. What would you like to know? I'm being vague, sure, but you bring up a great topic and I think you might have specific questions. Try me! Best to you! Seth MSM:
1. Thank you!
2. I’m glad you like it!
3. Yes. What would you like to know?

I’m being vague, sure, but you bring up a great topic and I think you might have specific questions. Try me!

Best to you!

Seth

]]> By: Ms. Single Mama http://thedatingpapers.com/baring-breasts-courting-with-acceptance/comment-page-1/#comment-172 Ms. Single Mama Fri, 12 Dec 2008 02:08:01 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=102#comment-172 You are awesome. LOVE your blog. Seriously. Nice work. Totally wondering though - have you ever dated a single mom? You are awesome.

LOVE your blog. Seriously. Nice work.

Totally wondering though – have you ever dated a single mom?

]]> By: Seth http://thedatingpapers.com/baring-breasts-courting-with-acceptance/comment-page-1/#comment-137 Seth Thu, 11 Dec 2008 07:58:09 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=102#comment-137 Scott: Thank you for your comment. Even when it's all laid out clear as day and you know the right thing to do, isn't it just so difficult to make the leap sometimes? I am delighted that you were able to connect with what I said about the importance of acceptance. Your comments make the process of taking the big concepts out of my head and stuffing them into 500word jars all the more rewarding. Thanks for reading! Seth Scott:

Thank you for your comment.

Even when it’s all laid out clear as day and you know the right thing to do, isn’t it just so difficult to make the leap sometimes?

I am delighted that you were able to connect with what I said about the importance of acceptance. Your comments make the process of taking the big concepts out of my head and stuffing them into 500word jars all the more rewarding. Thanks for reading!

Seth

]]> By: Scott Davidson http://thedatingpapers.com/baring-breasts-courting-with-acceptance/comment-page-1/#comment-134 Scott Davidson Thu, 11 Dec 2008 07:14:10 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=102#comment-134 Finally, SOMEONE "gets it". Thanks for the clarity on the topic, Seth. You couldn't have been more dead on target. I have witnessed so many relationships lead to failure when a "SigOt" tolerates another instead of accepting them as they are. As you conveyed, we know where that statistically can lead - "bitterness" and immense distance within what was once a very strong, almost "spiritual" connection. I do hope more read this (perhaps more than once) and become to realize the benefits that can be gained from Acceptance. With learned or experiential behavior traits, it is difficult for most, but so much worth our time and analysis. "Build habits of acceptance instead of tolerance." Worth repeating!! Look within, study yourself and accept others - make a choice to disagree, not merely "tolerate". Change "can" occur, but the pain in getting there and the toll on a relationship can be more than both and most can handle. hmmm..., some reading this small comment will think "not always", yes, yes, a certain foundation of understanding and learning can be an outcome, but you have to decide for yourself if it is truly what you want?? Sorry, for rambling...but you got me fired up on a topic that eats at a majority of relationships and is merely glossed over in most training/educational atmospheres. cheers! Scott Finally, SOMEONE “gets it”.

Thanks for the clarity on the topic, Seth. You couldn’t have been more dead on target. I have witnessed so many relationships lead to failure when a “SigOt” tolerates another instead of accepting them as they are.

As you conveyed, we know where that statistically can lead – “bitterness” and immense distance within what was once a very strong, almost “spiritual” connection.

I do hope more read this (perhaps more than once) and become to realize the benefits that can be gained from Acceptance. With learned or experiential behavior traits, it is difficult for most, but so much worth our time and analysis.

“Build habits of acceptance instead of tolerance.” Worth repeating!!

Look within, study yourself and accept others – make a choice to disagree, not merely “tolerate”.

Change “can” occur, but the pain in getting there and the toll on a relationship can be more than both and most can handle.

hmmm…, some reading this small comment will think “not always”, yes, yes, a certain foundation of understanding and learning can be an outcome, but you have to decide for yourself if it is truly what you want??

Sorry, for rambling…but you got me fired up on a topic that eats at a majority of relationships and is merely glossed over in most training/educational atmospheres.

cheers!
Scott

]]> By: Seth http://thedatingpapers.com/baring-breasts-courting-with-acceptance/comment-page-1/#comment-52 Seth Tue, 02 Dec 2008 07:35:22 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=102#comment-52 Thanks for stopping by, Thomas! It always ends up being the highly ignored simple things that might make the biggest difference, doesn't it? Seth Thanks for stopping by, Thomas! It always ends up being the highly ignored simple things that might make the biggest difference, doesn’t it?

Seth

]]> By: Infinity http://thedatingpapers.com/baring-breasts-courting-with-acceptance/comment-page-1/#comment-51 Infinity Tue, 02 Dec 2008 06:29:32 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=102#comment-51 Acceptance over tolerance is key. And you made a good choice there. Some people aren't as quick to make a judgment call like that and you came through. We all should learn from this simple yet highly ignored thinking. Acceptance over tolerance is key. And you made a good choice there. Some people aren’t as quick to make a judgment call like that and you came through.

We all should learn from this simple yet highly ignored thinking.

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