Comments on: Fat Head, Skinny Body: Dating Standards http://thedatingpapers.com/fat-head-skinny-body-dating-standards/ smart tips, better dates Sun, 21 Mar 2010 06:57:52 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: wealthy dating sites http://thedatingpapers.com/fat-head-skinny-body-dating-standards/comment-page-1/#comment-13084 wealthy dating sites Sat, 13 Mar 2010 15:35:50 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=226#comment-13084 Good work! I also have my very own weblog I just think it is very hard to write good quality material like this. Good work! I also have my very own weblog I just think it is very hard to write good quality material like this.

]]> By: Grandmapeg http://thedatingpapers.com/fat-head-skinny-body-dating-standards/comment-page-1/#comment-302 Grandmapeg Wed, 07 Jan 2009 15:59:48 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=226#comment-302 Dear Seth, Found your site through Twitter. The trait of caring is one that lasts for years - very well put. Staying active and caring for others can be done even after 85. Mom was still vounteer tutoring, visiting retirement home friends, and entertaining friends at her home. She actively cared about others. It was not a competition. I think an attractive body, mind, and spirit is what we do look for in friends. I also looked for the traits of responsible, dependable, honest, gentle, hard-working, and thus someone I could respect. When I know my gray hair and clothes are a mess my partner still finds me attractive and continues to love me, give me confidence that I'm smart enough to make my own decisions, and generally let me know I'm cherished. Finally, look for someone with the same values you have. Dear Seth,
Found your site through Twitter. The trait of caring is one that lasts for years – very well put.

Staying active and caring for others can be done even after 85. Mom was still vounteer tutoring, visiting retirement home friends, and entertaining friends at her home. She actively cared about others. It was not a competition.

I think an attractive body, mind, and spirit is what we do look for in friends. I also looked for the traits of responsible, dependable, honest, gentle, hard-working, and thus someone I could respect.

When I know my gray hair and clothes are a mess my partner still finds me attractive and continues to love me, give me confidence that I’m smart enough to make my own decisions, and generally let me know I’m cherished.

Finally, look for someone with the same values you have.

]]> By: Seth http://thedatingpapers.com/fat-head-skinny-body-dating-standards/comment-page-1/#comment-300 Seth Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:52:08 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=226#comment-300 Laurie: Thank you so much! I really appreciate your support. Moving to print media seems to be a theme in the comments on this post. Do you think someday you'll hear a writer-friend exulting because they were asked to write a blog? If it's in my future, I'll run with it. If not, that's okay! I really couldn't be more thrilled to be sharing my thoughts with you and enjoying the conversation that ensues! Thanks so much for your comment! Seth Laurie: Thank you so much! I really appreciate your support.

Moving to print media seems to be a theme in the comments on this post. Do you think someday you’ll hear a writer-friend exulting because they were asked to write a blog? If it’s in my future, I’ll run with it. If not, that’s okay!

I really couldn’t be more thrilled to be sharing my thoughts with you and enjoying the conversation that ensues! Thanks so much for your comment!

Seth

]]> By: Laurie http://thedatingpapers.com/fat-head-skinny-body-dating-standards/comment-page-1/#comment-299 Laurie Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:51:02 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=226#comment-299 Seth - I'm not even in the dating market, or in your age range, but I love your blog! I've subscribed and added a link to you from my page. Very cool gig you got going here. Keep it up. Soon you will have enough for a book. Later. Laurie Seth – I’m not even in the dating market, or in your age range, but I love your blog! I’ve subscribed and added a link to you from my page.

Very cool gig you got going here. Keep it up. Soon you will have enough for a book.

Later.

Laurie

]]> By: Seth http://thedatingpapers.com/fat-head-skinny-body-dating-standards/comment-page-1/#comment-298 Seth Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:17:10 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=226#comment-298 Thomas: You, my friend, know how to put things on a page! "If you make a change, do it for yourself, not for others." Words to live by. The cheesecake was delicious! =) Bobby: It is about balance! You have to make sure you drink a glass of eggnog for every piece of cheesecake! I kid, I kid. "Balance" is so easy to say and so hard to find in one's own life. I hope we all find more of it this new year. Best to you! Seth Thomas: You, my friend, know how to put things on a page! “If you make a change, do it for yourself, not for others.” Words to live by. The cheesecake was delicious! =)

Bobby: It is about balance! You have to make sure you drink a glass of eggnog for every piece of cheesecake! I kid, I kid. “Balance” is so easy to say and so hard to find in one’s own life. I hope we all find more of it this new year.

Best to you!

Seth

]]> By: bobby http://thedatingpapers.com/fat-head-skinny-body-dating-standards/comment-page-1/#comment-297 bobby Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:15:53 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=226#comment-297 It's about balance... Yeah, I like that :) It’s about balance…

Yeah, I like that :)

]]> By: Infinity http://thedatingpapers.com/fat-head-skinny-body-dating-standards/comment-page-1/#comment-296 Infinity Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:31:51 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=226#comment-296 Seth, years ago when I wanted to meet women, I'd figure out their expectations and try to meet them, completely neglecting my own expectations. When that time came when I was able to get these particular women, I felt amazing, like I achieved some type of major goal in life. Little did I know that it would amount to nothing because of these women, none of them were able to meet my expectations when it came down to it. Now, I set expectations for myself and what I look for in an ideal mate. It makes for much healthier relationship and gives it a chance at long-term implications. If you make a change, you do it for yourself, not for others. And I'm sure that cheesecake was worth every piece. Seth, years ago when I wanted to meet women, I’d figure out their expectations and try to meet them, completely neglecting my own expectations. When that time came when I was able to get these particular women, I felt amazing, like I achieved some type of major goal in life. Little did I know that it would amount to nothing because of these women, none of them were able to meet my expectations when it came down to it.

Now, I set expectations for myself and what I look for in an ideal mate. It makes for much healthier relationship and gives it a chance at long-term implications.

If you make a change, you do it for yourself, not for others.

And I’m sure that cheesecake was worth every piece.

]]> By: Seth http://thedatingpapers.com/fat-head-skinny-body-dating-standards/comment-page-1/#comment-295 Seth Tue, 06 Jan 2009 14:25:21 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=226#comment-295 Melanie: Of course you're odd, you're an amazing lady! I don't relish the idea of being with somebody who encourages me not to eat! Let's cook something wildly different and enjoy it, I say! Thank you for your kind remarks. I wish you and your husband all the best in your relationship and culinary adventures! Seth Melanie: Of course you’re odd, you’re an amazing lady! I don’t relish the idea of being with somebody who encourages me not to eat! Let’s cook something wildly different and enjoy it, I say!

Thank you for your kind remarks. I wish you and your husband all the best in your relationship and culinary adventures!

Seth

]]> By: Melanie http://thedatingpapers.com/fat-head-skinny-body-dating-standards/comment-page-1/#comment-294 Melanie Tue, 06 Jan 2009 14:20:45 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=226#comment-294 I really liked this post. You hint at a few important truths without really drawing them out, which is a really effective method for a post on this topic. Maybe I'm odd, but the vast majority of the quality time I spend with my husband is spent over meals. Hangups about food (on either side of a couple) will only make for awkward meals and an awkward relationship. I guess if both people are super shallow and weight-control fanatics, it might work out...they'd encourage each other not to eat, or something. But I just don't see the point...there are so many lovely foods out there to explore...and it's much more fun to do that exploration with a loved one! I really liked this post. You hint at a few important truths without really drawing them out, which is a really effective method for a post on this topic.

Maybe I’m odd, but the vast majority of the quality time I spend with my husband is spent over meals. Hangups about food (on either side of a couple) will only make for awkward meals and an awkward relationship. I guess if both people are super shallow and weight-control fanatics, it might work out…they’d encourage each other not to eat, or something. But I just don’t see the point…there are so many lovely foods out there to explore…and it’s much more fun to do that exploration with a loved one!

]]> By: Seth http://thedatingpapers.com/fat-head-skinny-body-dating-standards/comment-page-1/#comment-293 Seth Tue, 06 Jan 2009 14:09:05 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=226#comment-293 Sasha: Comfortably and in-quantity when needed! Thank you so much for your support. It means a lot that you believe in me, even though you're not very tall. Chris: Thanks! Cosmo hasn't expressed any interest yet but we'll wait and see! =) Yes, smart ladies are where it's at! Susie: Yes, leave a bit of mystery...but you don't like a lot of mystery when it comes to physical interaction, eh? You crack me up, lady! Thanks for reading! Porter: Checked out your site and really like your music. Your experience in traveling the world and realizing that the one thing you missed was your piano...speaks to us all about the importance of discovering and fostering our true passions. Thanks for inspiring me and for taking the time to say hi! Best to all of you! Seth Sasha: Comfortably and in-quantity when needed! Thank you so much for your support. It means a lot that you believe in me, even though you’re not very tall.

Chris: Thanks! Cosmo hasn’t expressed any interest yet but we’ll wait and see! =) Yes, smart ladies are where it’s at!

Susie: Yes, leave a bit of mystery…but you don’t like a lot of mystery when it comes to physical interaction, eh? You crack me up, lady! Thanks for reading!

Porter: Checked out your site and really like your music. Your experience in traveling the world and realizing that the one thing you missed was your piano…speaks to us all about the importance of discovering and fostering our true passions. Thanks for inspiring me and for taking the time to say hi!

Best to all of you!

Seth

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