Comments on: How To Get Over Your Ex http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex/ smart tips, better dates Sun, 21 Mar 2010 06:57:52 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Jason G. http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-6425 Jason G. Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:40:48 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=330#comment-6425 Hi Seth! I'm currently going through my second week as a signle man after a two year relationship. I must say, after reading many many papers with tips and tricks on "how to get over you ex", i must absolutly tell you, that yours is definatly the one that applies best to my mentality. I wan't to thank you for giving me the courage to get rid of any contact information i had with my ex, and exes! That peanut butter sandwich scenario is gold. A sense of control and releif was felt instantly, again thank you and i hope this gets to you and brightens up your day as you did to me! Hi Seth! I’m currently going through my second week as a signle man after a two year relationship. I must say, after reading many many papers with tips and tricks on “how to get over you ex”, i must absolutly tell you, that yours is definatly the one that applies best to my mentality. I wan’t to thank you for giving me the courage to get rid of any contact information i had with my ex, and exes! That peanut butter sandwich scenario is gold. A sense of control and releif was felt instantly, again thank you and i hope this gets to you and brightens up your day as you did to me!

]]> By: A girl http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-5798 A girl Sat, 01 Aug 2009 17:39:45 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=330#comment-5798 Hi.I'm so confused,and now I even don't know what love is..my ex broke up with me 3 month ago..after 3 years..at first it didn't hurt at all..we had some small break ups before,and always came back.Now when he broke up with me it was fine,i felt like we had never dated,I got out,met other man,had some one night stands..and felt ok with it..and then i called him..we talked and got some time together..we were together for a week but didn't came back..i just can't let him go..i did some stupid things and say some stupid and hurtful words to him trying to make him feel bad..and i just don't know what i'm feeling-i want him,i cant forget him and i just don't belive it's over/our plans for the future..our promises (we planed to marry) ..but he says that he doesn't wanna come back now and don't know what he feels for me..so time passing and with every week it just getting worse,i can't stop thinking of him..now i even don't wanna someone else,it's just not IT/and i tried some..i miss him so much..he was more than a lover to me..it's like to loose one of your family member.and i just don't wanna forget him and throw out of my life.he means so much to me,PLEAS EXPLAIN ME WHAT TO DO! how to act.. i can't think anymore is it true love if i feel that way? or it's just a habit? PLEASE HELP ME, I'll really appreciate it.. Hi.I’m so confused,and now I even don’t know what love is..my ex broke up with me 3 month ago..after 3 years..at first it didn’t hurt at all..we had some small break ups before,and always came back.Now when he broke up with me it was fine,i felt like we had never dated,I got out,met other man,had some one night stands..and felt ok with it..and then i called him..we talked and got some time together..we were together for a week but didn’t came back..i just can’t let him go..i did some stupid things and say some stupid and hurtful words to him trying to make him feel bad..and i just don’t know what i’m feeling-i want him,i cant forget him and i just don’t belive it’s over/our plans for the future..our promises (we planed to marry) ..but he says that he doesn’t wanna come back now and don’t know what he feels for me..so time passing and with every week it just getting worse,i can’t stop thinking of him..now i even don’t wanna someone else,it’s just not IT/and i tried some..i miss him so much..he was more than a lover to me..it’s like to loose one of your family member.and i just don’t wanna forget him and throw out of my life.he means so much to me,PLEAS EXPLAIN ME WHAT TO DO! how to act.. i can’t think anymore is it true love if i feel that way? or it’s just a habit?
PLEASE HELP ME, I’ll really appreciate it..

]]> By: Me and bump http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-5655 Me and bump Mon, 27 Jul 2009 21:46:16 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=330#comment-5655 Hi any ideas how to get over a 3 year relationship and also be pregnant by him? he continues to play mind games with me - im in a mess and time doesnt seem to be helping I havent seen him since April and I still love him with all my heart Hi any ideas how to get over a 3 year relationship and also be pregnant by him? he continues to play mind games with me – im in a mess and time doesnt seem to be helping I havent seen him since April and I still love him with all my heart

]]> By: David Tinkler http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-5541 David Tinkler Fri, 24 Jul 2009 13:12:52 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=330#comment-5541 I broke up with my ex around 3 months ago and it doesn't get any easier. I can't seem to stop calling or texting her even though she blatantly wants nothing to do with me whatsoever. She moved out into a new place and I guess I was in denial until it actually happened and I am blaming myself for everything that has happened and the last thing I want to do is move on ane meet other women, even though that's probably the best thing to do. I broke up with my ex around 3 months ago and it doesn’t get any easier. I can’t seem to stop calling or texting her even though she blatantly wants nothing to do with me whatsoever. She moved out into a new place and I guess I was in denial until it actually happened and I am blaming myself for everything that has happened and the last thing I want to do is move on ane meet other women, even though that’s probably the best thing to do.

]]> By: The Dating Papers » Blog Archive » How to Survive A Break-Up: Chris Blake Puts It Back Together (with free music download) http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-2699 The Dating Papers » Blog Archive » How to Survive A Break-Up: Chris Blake Puts It Back Together (with free music download) Wed, 13 May 2009 00:24:49 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=330#comment-2699 [...] might also like: How To Get Over Your Ex Related posts:10 Bastardly [...] [...] might also like: How To Get Over Your Ex Related posts:10 Bastardly [...]

]]> By: Seth http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-1316 Seth Sat, 04 Apr 2009 05:00:18 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=330#comment-1316 I'm delighted at the chance to make you smile. I hope your heart heals quickly! I’m delighted at the chance to make you smile. I hope your heart heals quickly!

]]> By: Seth http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-1315 Seth Sat, 04 Apr 2009 04:59:39 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=330#comment-1315 Going to college should help a lot. Just hold on through the summer. Here's my bit of killer advice for college and meeting people: Say hello to as many people as you possibly can in your first 2 weeks of school. Everybody is still feeling new and unconnected. Saying hello and opening initial conversations will make the rest of your social adventure much easier. You'll soon be covered with friends and potential boys who will help you forget the bitter taste in your mouth. Good luck! Going to college should help a lot. Just hold on through the summer.

Here’s my bit of killer advice for college and meeting people: Say hello to as many people as you possibly can in your first 2 weeks of school. Everybody is still feeling new and unconnected. Saying hello and opening initial conversations will make the rest of your social adventure much easier. You’ll soon be covered with friends and potential boys who will help you forget the bitter taste in your mouth. Good luck!

]]> By: charlene little http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-1272 charlene little Thu, 02 Apr 2009 21:37:48 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=330#comment-1272 I have no words of wisdom. However, i would be remiss if I did not thank you for yours. It is not a slight thing that through your words I actually laughed. Outloud. Thank you I have no words of wisdom. However, i would be remiss if I did not thank you for yours. It is not a slight thing that through your words I actually laughed. Outloud. Thank you

]]> By: Jessah http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-1132 Jessah Wed, 25 Mar 2009 13:31:53 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=330#comment-1132 My ex and I just had a very mutual break-up at the beginning of March, just under a month before we hit one year together. It was very hard for me, because my constant worrying of losing him the whole time, ended in me losing him! I had started talking to a new guy 4 days afterwards, but then that interest went down completely after I realized he was only temporarily filling a whole in my heart. The ex and I are still friends, which is what he really wants, and I'm pretty alright with that. I want more, but I know that won't happen, and I accept it fully. We're both heading of to different colleges this fall, and I know I'll meet some great people there and hopefully a great new guy, maybe even that same one I talked to, and my ex would just be a guy I had some really great times with. And that's all I need from him. I had deleted him off of my MSN, but recently added him again, knowing that while it may be hard for a while talking to him, down the road, it could be even harder NOT to talk to him. Your post really is great, and it made me realize that I can get on with my life, and that there's always going to be another guy who's going to want to lavish me with affection and treat me as if I was a rare gift made for him alone. Thanks for the post! Jess My ex and I just had a very mutual break-up at the beginning of March, just under a month before we hit one year together. It was very hard for me, because my constant worrying of losing him the whole time, ended in me losing him! I had started talking to a new guy 4 days afterwards, but then that interest went down completely after I realized he was only temporarily filling a whole in my heart.
The ex and I are still friends, which is what he really wants, and I’m pretty alright with that. I want more, but I know that won’t happen, and I accept it fully.
We’re both heading of to different colleges this fall, and I know I’ll meet some great people there and hopefully a great new guy, maybe even that same one I talked to, and my ex would just be a guy I had some really great times with. And that’s all I need from him.

I had deleted him off of my MSN, but recently added him again, knowing that while it may be hard for a while talking to him, down the road, it could be even harder NOT to talk to him.

Your post really is great, and it made me realize that I can get on with my life, and that there’s always going to be another guy who’s going to want to lavish me with affection and treat me as if I was a rare gift made for him alone.
Thanks for the post!

Jess

]]> By: Jane http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-837 Jane Thu, 26 Feb 2009 04:20:11 +0000 http://thedatingpapers.com/?p=330#comment-837 It's been over 6 months since my ex broke up with me, but I still have great feelings for him. I stopped talking to him for 2 months, but it became unbearable since we had almost all classes together. So now we're best friends, talking everyday, being really close. So I'm still not over him, but one good sign I guess is that I can't cry, even if I'm still sad (: Any advice? And no I won't delete his number or stop talking to him. I don't want to lose the friendship I've built up. It’s been over 6 months since my ex broke up with me, but I still have great feelings for him. I stopped talking to him for 2 months, but it became unbearable since we had almost all classes together.

So now we’re best friends, talking everyday, being really close. So I’m still not over him, but one good sign I guess is that I can’t cry, even if I’m still sad (:

Any advice? And no I won’t delete his number or stop talking to him. I don’t want to lose the friendship I’ve built up.

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