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		<title>By: Seth Simonds</title>
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		<dc:creator>Seth Simonds</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 15:11:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s not me in the photo, but yes, I do enjoy great kebabs grilled at the beach! You have a wonderful sense of humor. Always make me smile! =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s not me in the photo, but yes, I do enjoy great kebabs grilled at the beach! You have a wonderful sense of humor. Always make me smile! =)</p>
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		<title>By: Claudi Broome</title>
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		<dc:creator>Claudi Broome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 14:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seth,
This is a really good one. You manage to put humor into a simple fact. The knowledge, the humor and the interest seems to really work. My problem is the fact that my humor doesn&#039;t even come close to yours! Just for curiosity, was the &quot;shish-ka-bob&quot; good?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seth,<br />
This is a really good one. You manage to put humor into a simple fact. The knowledge, the humor and the interest seems to really work. My problem is the fact that my humor doesn&#8217;t even come close to yours! Just for curiosity, was the &#8220;shish-ka-bob&#8221; good?</p>
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		<title>By: Kate Tribe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate Tribe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 14:12:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Post definitely makes sense.

As my Twitter profile says, I am a cricket fanatic, and that is mainly the traditional version. Yes, that game that can go for 5 days with no result. 

Every year I sit at our local ground with my Mum and watch Australia play the visiting team, for the whole test.  To love that, you need to love the journey, ebbs and flows. That you can look like you are loosing and you can edge your way back. A deeper journey that can&#039;t be developed in a game that is over in 2-3 hours. 

It is an escape for a week with a community of people that also love the journey and it is probably the only thing that connects you. You escape the contemporary need for rush and quick response. It is a totally different world and you can walk home at the end of each day. 

That is a great BBC story. Why did you choose BBC? I am listening to the Australian version right now (at 1am) for the Aust v Sth Africa 2nd test. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Post definitely makes sense.</p>
<p>As my Twitter profile says, I am a cricket fanatic, and that is mainly the traditional version. Yes, that game that can go for 5 days with no result. </p>
<p>Every year I sit at our local ground with my Mum and watch Australia play the visiting team, for the whole test.  To love that, you need to love the journey, ebbs and flows. That you can look like you are loosing and you can edge your way back. A deeper journey that can&#8217;t be developed in a game that is over in 2-3 hours. </p>
<p>It is an escape for a week with a community of people that also love the journey and it is probably the only thing that connects you. You escape the contemporary need for rush and quick response. It is a totally different world and you can walk home at the end of each day. </p>
<p>That is a great BBC story. Why did you choose BBC? I am listening to the Australian version right now (at 1am) for the Aust v Sth Africa 2nd test. <img src='http://thedatingpapers.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Seth Simonds</title>
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		<dc:creator>Seth Simonds</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 17:48:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No bad conversations about cricket. Simply have yet to meet somebody who is passionate and knowledgeable about cricket with a willingness to share their passion with me. 

I know about wickets and stumps and creases, but I have yet to connect them all into something that makes sense in a big-picture sort of way. 

I have wonderful associations with the sport simply because I wasn&#039;t allowed to listen to public radio growing up and used to sneak out and listen to the BBC late at night. Good stuff!

Look at that. Your passion and a crazy story from my life just connected in a conversation. Hmmm. Perhaps my post makes sense then? =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No bad conversations about cricket. Simply have yet to meet somebody who is passionate and knowledgeable about cricket with a willingness to share their passion with me. </p>
<p>I know about wickets and stumps and creases, but I have yet to connect them all into something that makes sense in a big-picture sort of way. </p>
<p>I have wonderful associations with the sport simply because I wasn&#8217;t allowed to listen to public radio growing up and used to sneak out and listen to the BBC late at night. Good stuff!</p>
<p>Look at that. Your passion and a crazy story from my life just connected in a conversation. Hmmm. Perhaps my post makes sense then? =)</p>
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		<title>By: Seth Simonds</title>
		<link>http://thedatingpapers.com/how-to-talk-about-yourself-attractive-passion/comment-page-1/#comment-999</link>
		<dc:creator>Seth Simonds</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 14:54:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Misty! I like it quite a bit too. =)

You&#039;re very fortunate that talking about your passions while dating comes so naturally. Most are so worried that their date won&#039;t like them for some reasons that they neglect to share the information that might actually kick things to a higher level of communication. 

Yes, it definitely shows in the physical. Passionate conversations about nearly 
ANYTHING are sexy. 

Best!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Misty! I like it quite a bit too. =)</p>
<p>You&#8217;re very fortunate that talking about your passions while dating comes so naturally. Most are so worried that their date won&#8217;t like them for some reasons that they neglect to share the information that might actually kick things to a higher level of communication. </p>
<p>Yes, it definitely shows in the physical. Passionate conversations about nearly<br />
ANYTHING are sexy. </p>
<p>Best!</p>
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		<title>By: Misty Belardo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Misty Belardo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 06:29:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seth, love the layout! WOW! Hmm Nice topic too.  Passion is a big word for me.  I think i live in a world where people don&#039;t get me.  When I am passionate about something I really go for it.  

But in the dating world and even in friendships it just comes out naturally.  

Like the guy i spoke to you about in the last post you had, he was like why you Twitter and why so involved in digital? It just came out from his mouth last night.  He was apparently getting curious checked the net and came across my blog (he loved the avatars) and an article i wrote on inspiration and creativity.

I used to talk to him about it but more of like what exciting things have developed and got him interested without me pushing him.  He just wouldn&#039;t admit it at first. He said and I quote &quot;he saw something in my aura&quot;. He said i beamed, and he liked what he saw.  Wow, talk about passion and how it has apparently shown even on the physical.  

I totally dig your article and looking forward to the next one. You rock Seth.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seth, love the layout! WOW! Hmm Nice topic too.  Passion is a big word for me.  I think i live in a world where people don&#8217;t get me.  When I am passionate about something I really go for it.  </p>
<p>But in the dating world and even in friendships it just comes out naturally.  </p>
<p>Like the guy i spoke to you about in the last post you had, he was like why you Twitter and why so involved in digital? It just came out from his mouth last night.  He was apparently getting curious checked the net and came across my blog (he loved the avatars) and an article i wrote on inspiration and creativity.</p>
<p>I used to talk to him about it but more of like what exciting things have developed and got him interested without me pushing him.  He just wouldn&#8217;t admit it at first. He said and I quote &#8220;he saw something in my aura&#8221;. He said i beamed, and he liked what he saw.  Wow, talk about passion and how it has apparently shown even on the physical.  </p>
<p>I totally dig your article and looking forward to the next one. You rock Seth.</p>
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		<title>By: Seth Simonds</title>
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		<dc:creator>Seth Simonds</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 04:39:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are one of the most quotable people I know, Henie! =)

Yes, it&#039;s great when you can get people involved in your passion but that often comes after you&#039;ve known somebody for a bit. One of the benefits to meeting dates in alternative social environments like athletic clubs and activities is that you already know you&#039;ve got something in common. 

The cool thing about passion is that you don&#039;t have to share the passion in order to have a great conversation about it. Just like Kate&#039;s experience, you can have wonderful interactions without sharing a passion. It&#039;s all about sharing THE passion! =) 

I&#039;d never thought about being a bubble in a glass of champagne. I do like how you work alcohol into all of our conversations though. 

Writing, I suppose, is a passion. It&#039;s not something I talk about a lot though. I&#039;d much rather talk about cooking...or, as you suggest, participate in it! =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are one of the most quotable people I know, Henie! =)</p>
<p>Yes, it&#8217;s great when you can get people involved in your passion but that often comes after you&#8217;ve known somebody for a bit. One of the benefits to meeting dates in alternative social environments like athletic clubs and activities is that you already know you&#8217;ve got something in common. </p>
<p>The cool thing about passion is that you don&#8217;t have to share the passion in order to have a great conversation about it. Just like Kate&#8217;s experience, you can have wonderful interactions without sharing a passion. It&#8217;s all about sharing THE passion! =) </p>
<p>I&#8217;d never thought about being a bubble in a glass of champagne. I do like how you work alcohol into all of our conversations though. </p>
<p>Writing, I suppose, is a passion. It&#8217;s not something I talk about a lot though. I&#8217;d much rather talk about cooking&#8230;or, as you suggest, participate in it! =)</p>
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		<title>By: Kate Tribe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate Tribe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 04:19:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So have you had bad conversations about cricket that need to be replaced by good conversations, or just not had conversations about cricket?

I don&#039;t think I know anyone living in USA that has anything more than a terribly sparse knowledge of cricket. In fact I know people who once had a great knowledge of cricket that became sparse once moving to USA. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So have you had bad conversations about cricket that need to be replaced by good conversations, or just not had conversations about cricket?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think I know anyone living in USA that has anything more than a terribly sparse knowledge of cricket. In fact I know people who once had a great knowledge of cricket that became sparse once moving to USA. <img src='http://thedatingpapers.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Henie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Henie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 04:17:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>P.S. I love the new skin of this site! Very nice and refreshing! :~)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>P.S. I love the new skin of this site! Very nice and refreshing! :~)</p>
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		<title>By: Henie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Henie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 04:16:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I always say that I am more passionate than passion fruit!:~) Well...that&#039;s how I initiate humor, especially on a first date! It works all the time!

While &quot;talking&quot; about one&#039;s passion is a dynamic start...I believe that doing and sharing one&#039;s passion is the electric key! It garners participation and/or being a spectator all in one mode.

I truly live my immediate passion of writing and photography but even more so, living life in the moment and truly being present is my ultimate passion! I am the zing in ziiinging! :~) I am the bubble in a glass of champagne!:~)

Thank you for another stellar post, Seth, but what&#039;s your passion?

&quot;Hug your passion into action!&quot; ~Henie~</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always say that I am more passionate than passion fruit!:~) Well&#8230;that&#8217;s how I initiate humor, especially on a first date! It works all the time!</p>
<p>While &#8220;talking&#8221; about one&#8217;s passion is a dynamic start&#8230;I believe that doing and sharing one&#8217;s passion is the electric key! It garners participation and/or being a spectator all in one mode.</p>
<p>I truly live my immediate passion of writing and photography but even more so, living life in the moment and truly being present is my ultimate passion! I am the zing in ziiinging! :~) I am the bubble in a glass of champagne!:~)</p>
<p>Thank you for another stellar post, Seth, but what&#8217;s your passion?</p>
<p>&#8220;Hug your passion into action!&#8221; ~Henie~</p>
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