Comments on: 7 Reasons It’s Your Fault When He Cheats

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By: David

David — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 18:28:07 +0000

Angie,

You are the only commenter with any integrity on here. I agree whole-heartedly with you. Cheating is a narcissistic’s way of having their cake and eating it, too. If you want to solve a problem, communicate, talk, and if you can’t agree, end it.

All you people who make excuses for cheating are dishonest and a disgrace to yourselves and everyone else in your relationships. You can have an open relationship, provided both of you have that understanding, but cheating behind someone’s back is just plain pathetic.

By: Melanie

Melanie — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 19:30:09 +0000

Being a now 24 year old woman who was separated in April after a grand whole 2 months of marriage due to my husband’s infidelity, I have to agree more with Angie & Donna.

My husband has tried to blame me for what he did. He’s also told many different versions of the truth. The real truth came out when the other girl herself wrote to me and told me what really went on, and he had to finally confess the other night. We were separated in April through August and it’s been nothing but lie after lie. He chose to do what he did… he blames the arguing but conveniently forgets the arguing occurred due to his first round of infidelity in the first year of our relationship and the violence.

So you cheaters can cheat and then blame the person who has been betrayed, but you had the choice and you chose to hurt another. How dare you blame us?

By: Deb Salas

Deb Salas — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 21:04:48 +0000

Makes me want to become a lesbian without the sex. As I get older I hate men more and more. Any day of the week I will take a good friend. I will never again be under the control of any individual. Freedom and dignity. Let these men find their playboy models and I will be happy to have absolutely nothing to do with them and I can participate in the higher energies of life. I will get to wear sweats, eat cookies and actually have a two-way conversation with a connection with someone who knows how to communicate. That is worth more to me then men who ask – where are my clean underwear, what is for dinner, why are the kids spoiled. Men who do exactly what makes them happy and make up lies for their actions and use intimadation to make you admit they are not lying. Again.. I hate men.

By: Zane Neidhardt

Zane Neidhardt — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 01:13:09 +0000

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By: Donna G.

Donna G. — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 06:32:47 +0000

Not proud to admit it but I cheated on my husband, and that’s the reason we got divorced. When I admit to someone I cheated, I always followed it up with “Well, he (my husband) did this and didn’t do that, and he was a big asshole, and I was just unhappy and that’s why I did it!” I can tell you right now that that was complete and utter BS. Angie’s absolutely right – he didn’t MAKE me cheat. I was a big chickenshit who didn’t have the balls to tell my husband I wasn’t happy. He didn’t drive me into someone else’s arms, at worst he really was an asshole, but I made the decision to cheat instead of taking the honest way out. Anyone who claims they they were MADE to cheat is in BIG DENIAL and is too fearful to tell the truth .. that has nothing to do with their partner and everything to do with the person’s own cowardice.

I want to comment on Stev’s big long list and Sarah’s quote but don’t quite know how to phrase it at this time.

All I can say is that this article and the comments it raised (whether or or not I agree with them) are so interesting!!

By: Sarah Joy Albrecht

Sarah Joy Albrecht — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 02:13:30 +0000

Fav. quote on trophy wives: “In our society, women are repeatedly told ad nauseam, by those periodic packaged lies called women’s magazines, that it is their responsibility to deck themselves out in such a way that they ‘keep’ their man. A woman may be able to do this successfully in her twenties, and then have to work a little harder in her thirties and forties. Then, if she still buys all this foolishness, she really has to work in her fifties and sixties, because she is always competing with twenty-year-olds. If a wife treats fidelity in marriage as a prize to be obtained through competition, then somewhere, sometime, she is going to lose.” – Douglas Wilson, Her Hand in Marriage

By: Jeff Stone

Jeff Stone — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 19:42:23 +0000

Send this post to Mrs. Woods and all of the nosey asses who cannot understand why……

Angie N. – you said “Ok, I’ve been trying to resist making a comment but this whole thing is just sick and twisted. I mean, ‘make’ him cheat? Are you kidding me? You can’t MAKE anyone do anything.”

Nowhere in the article or any posted comment did anyone say “make him cheat”. There are “make him feel noticed”, “make him feel goooood”.

It turns out your later response, here below, is a good example of projection, because it is you that has a communication issue. Communication is two way, you need to read to know what to respond to.
Just being able to type out your ramblings because your cats cannot reply to you is not a sign of a thinking person. Could it be you are a living example of this article being correct ? Only you and your cats know for sure.

By: Rina

Rina — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 23:15:15 +0000

Angie, you are my hero so nice to see somebody with a brain and the ability to think for themselves commenting on this ridiculous article.