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How To Give Fail-Proof Relationship Advice In 3 Steps

By Simon Cole | Published: December 1, 2009

by Simon Cole Step 1 – Listen Step 2 – Listen more Step 3 – Keep listening At no point in this process should open your mouth to speak. If you have trouble keeping quiet (most of us do) then have some crackers and a nice glass of wine to keep your mouth occupied while [...]

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More Than Listening: Being Present

By s | Published: February 3, 2009

Have you ever been verbally dressed-down for the way you communicate in a relationship? She looked me right in the eyes and said, “Seth, you’re smart, brilliant even. But most of the time you’re not here. You listen, you process, but you’re not here. You have all these projects and things you keep streaming through [...]

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